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One Day She Will Roll Her Eyes At Me

one day she will roll her eyes at meWhen our first child was born, I remember looking down at her, in awe of her newness and so in love with this warm, wiggly little being. And I remember thinking that this beautiful gift from God would one day roll her eyes at me in frustration. I knew that day would come. Because she would grow and learn and develop her own opinions and thoughts about things.

And occasionally her thoughts would be in direct opposition to my thoughts. She would grow to want to be independent and the struggle between parents holding on and children wanting to let go would rage on, like a dance with all the delicacy of a bull in a china shop.

Fast forward to today. Girl child really likes to do things by herself. Not like baby girl does…spilling the cereal all over the table because she wanted to pour it herself but does not yet possess the fine motor skills to maintain accuracy when aiming for her cereal bowl. Girl child likes responsibility. She likes to do things that confirm she’s growing up. Like emptying the dishwasher herself, including the knives. She knows what’s been off limits to her until she’s old enough. And she wants to be old enough!

So, as she gains more and more independence, I wonder where I will fit in to her world. When she was fresh from God, I was completely in charge of everything for her. Now I reach into my pockets and hand over yet another thing I managed that she now can do for herself. Lord help me when she’s old enough to drive.

That’s kind of scary. Because at some point in her life, I won’t know where she is or what she’s doing. She’ll call me and check in (she better if she knows what’s good for her!). We will chat and catch up on all the stuff she’s been into. Maybe she’ll share heartbreak with me, but who knows. Maybe not. And then, she’ll hang up and go on with her life. Without me.

As we move further away from dependence, I try to remind her how family always sticks together. How we always look out for each other, no matter what. That her brother and sister are now and will forever be her closest and best friends. She will still roll her eyes every now and then but I’m trying to plant the seeds now so that later, when she needs the tree of support and faithful love and encouragement, she’ll find us all there.

 

 

 

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Our Best- Vol 1, Issue 3

the (4)I’m a day late and a dollar short…well two days late, but who’s counting!

Today, this regular Tuesday, I think I just want to say this to you and hope that this falls on the right “ears” because it was said last week in a meeting I attended and it hit me like a ton of bricks.

You should never be bitter in the work you are doing. Do all things the very best that you can. And along the way, look for and find your purpose and calling in God’s design for your life.

If you don’t know what your purpose and calling is or don’t know where to look, ask God to help you find it. Specifically ask Him to help you find your purpose and calling in His design your your life.

Here’s the other part…listen and wait on Him. (The waiting is the hardest part, right?)

Be encouraged this week and know that God’s got great things in store for YOU!

Heather,
The Best For Our Family

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Our Best- Vol 1, Issue 2

Well, friends, here we are on the cusp of the next week. On the eve of the next thing that needs to be done, the item to cross off the list, or the project that needs to be finished.

Take a moment just now and breathe. Enjoy the moment you are in right now. It’s precious. The coming week is bound to have many things in it. What do you plan to focus on?

The joy, laughter, pride, and peace?

Or the difficulties, stress, sadness, disappointment?

Pick what you want to focus on. I guarantee you’ll want to look for the good. Below is a free printable note card that you can tape to your mirror, attach to your computer…put wherever you need the reminder.

Look for the good in your day…it’s there, I promise!

Be good!

Heather,
The Best For Our Family

Look for the good

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Our Best- Vol 1, Issue 1

Our first newsletter…we promise we’ll keep it short!

Sometimes the beginning of a week can be daunting. There’s so much on the horizon that needs to get done and often times, it’s only you that can get it done. From laundry, checkbook matters, bathing little children, appointments, traffic, weekly activities…it can all be so overwhelming.

Many times, the feeling of being overwhelmed is enough to reduce the quality of what we do. And that’s when we must remember why we do what we do. This is the maintenance of the family. It’s God-honored work and it’s always going to bear fruit. Try to find joy in what you’re tasked to do for the week. Fill your lungs with fresh air and organize your tasks and responsibilities. Then, complete them one by one.

In the days of smartphones and technology, paper seems so antiquated. But nothing beats seeing my tasks spelled out in front of me and the feeling of accomplishment I have when I see those items crossed off or checked off the list.

We are giving away this free printable to help you stay organized for the week.

It's all gotta get done!(Click link for printer-friendly version: It’s all gotta get done!)

So, get going on your week…write it down and watch the items get accomplished. You can do it!

Heather,
The Best for Our Family
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Encourage Each Other!

This post is for the ladies…how often do you find yourself feeling alone? Overwhelmed? Not good enough?

We should encourage each other whenever we can. Sometimes it’s hard because we are all running around all the time making sure everyone and everything else is how it should be.

Here is a free notecard you can print out and keep in your purse. When you see another woman who may look exhausted, glum, frustrated…whatever…write a quick encouraging note and give it to her!

Proverbs 31-26 NotecardPay it forward!

Here’s a link to a print-friendly version…print it out as much as you like. …and watch the site for more designs!

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Children, Family

Good from bad

So sometimes life is kind of crappy. No matter what’s going on, you just can’t seem to get above it. It just stinks. Why keep trying?

People often say ,“Why does God let bad things happen to good people?”

What a huge question…especially to those who don’t have faith or believe in the God who gave us His best.

He gave us His Son who took on the sin of the world.
Your sin and mine.
He had to look away from His own Son.
For us.

We live in a broken and fractured world, tarnished by Satan. We live in a world where Satan does all he can to ruin God-purposed lives. The bad is because of Satan. Plain and simple.

So then, why does God just “let” bad things happen if He’s so powerful? Why doesn’t He just use His power and fix it?

God doesn’t need to prove His power to us. That’s not how He wants us to choose Him. He wants us freely, despite when bad things happen.

Our free will.
Our decision to follow Him.

There’s a scripture that says “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28)

So when bad things happen, God makes good out of it. Bad things happen because this world is sinful. It can’t be a perfect world. That’s not God’s fault. That’s our fault. So it’s not His fault when things go bad here.

But God is loving and kind and uses bad things to make good things.

IMG_8949All bad things have side effects. Bad things can make us stronger, they can give us perspective to help others who are going through a similar situation, they can draw us closer to family.

There’s a tree in our yard that smells just horrible when the Spring comes. Sometimes I look at that tree and think it’s horrible! But recently, my little boy brought me a flower from that tree and honestly it’s beautiful.

Beautiful things come from horrible things.